Why when people are faced with a question they don't like they say "I don't know"? Is it just easier than facing the facts? Is it just easier than saying what is on their mind?
Recently I have had someone in my life that their answer to everything is "I don't know". I just hurts because they can't be honest with me. How hard is it to look someone in the eyes and say how they feel. You know sometimes it would make life easier to just get your feelings out into the open. Why bottle up everything, because that just hurts the situation. Be honest. How hard is honesty. Yes, it may hurt some at first, but at the same time, honesty clears up alot of misconceptions in any relationship whether friend, significant other, or family. It would make life much easier to get the feelings out there regardless of the ups and downs at the time because facing problems when they first happen helps to create less stress later on in a relationship. Get through the rough patches at the time instead of dealing with it 5 years down the road. How hard is that to understand seriously. Anyways sometimes you cannot let your pride get in the way of dealing with issues. Understand that for a relationship to survive, you have to have understanding and honesty. Without the two, your relationship regarless is set to fail from the beginning. Both people in any relationship need to understand that they need to open up and not shut each other. Sometimes I wished people could understand the thought behind that, but it rarely actually happens.
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It does rarely happen. It's something that guys and girls both suffer from. They can't be honest with how they feel or what they think about something.
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