Have you ever noticed that you are always the person that never gets what they want? You always show up a little to late in the picture to be able to get the prize. I sure know I have. It seems like everytime I find something or someone that I truly want. It always seems that they have started dating someone else or the something that I desire is already gone. Why is life like that? I have never understood why. I just think that some of us will always have that short end of the stick. I hate the way you think for once I am going to get this job promotion or this really hot date and then BAM what happens you just don't get it. How is this possible. I hate it. How can everything that a person want in life seem to slip through their grasp. How is it that some people seem to always get what they want when they want it. For us unfortunate people, we have to scrape by and try not to be so selective, because whenever we get picky, we basically get a slap in the face with a reality check. Yep, some of you just like me have to know how this feels.
For example, I have this friend that has been seeing this guy for a few months now. She has known him for several years and of course, what do women do, she fell for him. Oh, but the catch is that he is a little unattached from his other girlfriend that he has been seeing for the last few years. Well, the issue here is that he cannot breakup with his girlfriend of 3 years, because his family has planned for them to get married and he feels that he has to stay with her out of obligation. My friend's boyfriend has never been quote on quote madly in love with this girl that he is being forced to marry, but he still has to marry her because of his family. My friend is so depressed that she has no idea what to do. Of course, the first guy that she ever falls in love with and the first guy that she lost her virginity with is attached to someone else. How does this happen? I wonder why she did this to herself. BUT I do understand that you can't always help who you fall in love with. I just hope that their situation will work itself out.
It is situations like that one that are just so hard to watch. How can life be so hard? It is just painful to have something that you cherish so much, but then later on, it gets pulled away from you like it was never yours really to begin with. Maybe one day, we will all get a little satisfaction and be able to take what we want, but until then, I will just try to keep being me.
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Life definitely is full of ups and downs. For some of us, it seems that there are more downs than ups. It does make you think often why it seems like some people have a more easy ride through life. They always seem to get what they want. The rest of us are lucky if we get one little break.
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